Trying to explain to a grandmother and great grandmother the importance of keeping my child out of a bikini at the age of 22 months is not only difficult, but shouldn't be required. If a parent says "no bikinis" why is it poopoo'd by grandparents?
Our children are sexualized at a very early age in this society. It disgusts me that it starts as early as 22 months. She isn't even 2! The more I type about this, the angrier I become. As a mother I am supposed to protect my child. I should be able to leave her alone with her grandparents for 30 minutes without worrying about a "fashion show" in a bikini, complete with photographs!
Grandma & Great Grandma had been told SEVERAL times that as parents we did NOT want our daughter wearing a bikini. We absolutely do not approve. After I reminded them AGAIN when I saw what they were doing my ideas were dismissed as silly. When it comes to the over sexualization of our kids I don't think there is such a thing as "over protective."
The bikini has been confiscated and the photographs deleted.
The more I think about it, the more pissed off I become.
What's next, are you going to feed her a peanut? (She's allergic but I'm sure that's just me being over protective.)
Monday, June 4, 2012
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Go Raw!
I was at Whole Foods yesterday & picked up some "Original Super Cookies" made by Go Raw. The ingredients were are simple: Coconut, Sprouted Sesame Seeds & Dates - all organic. The tag line reads: "real live food" and the package states "Gluten Free, Wheat Free & Nut Free". All hand made (!!), Raw Kitchen, Family Owned.
Well shoot. I figured I might as well try them! I'm glad I did. The super cookies resemble little crackers but they're chewy and slightly sweet (hence the coconuts & dates). Turned out to be a very tasty little treat!
In addition to being gluten free, they also made you feel like you're a part of a secret super healthy alliance of raw food eaters - without actually dedicating yourself to eating raw food all the time. There's nothing wrong with trying something new & different! Especially when it makes you feel so good!
Kudos to Go Raw for making such a healthy, tasty product! I will be trying their other gluten free products sometime in the future.
I also saw on the calendar at our local Whole Foods that they are having a Gluten Free Fair on July 9th! It's a Saturday and I'll just bet they'll have all kinds of yummy GF items to try. I put it on our schedule to go & see what's up. I really like our local WF. I think we'll make it more of a regular shopping stop in the very near future.
Well shoot. I figured I might as well try them! I'm glad I did. The super cookies resemble little crackers but they're chewy and slightly sweet (hence the coconuts & dates). Turned out to be a very tasty little treat!
In addition to being gluten free, they also made you feel like you're a part of a secret super healthy alliance of raw food eaters - without actually dedicating yourself to eating raw food all the time. There's nothing wrong with trying something new & different! Especially when it makes you feel so good!
Kudos to Go Raw for making such a healthy, tasty product! I will be trying their other gluten free products sometime in the future.
I also saw on the calendar at our local Whole Foods that they are having a Gluten Free Fair on July 9th! It's a Saturday and I'll just bet they'll have all kinds of yummy GF items to try. I put it on our schedule to go & see what's up. I really like our local WF. I think we'll make it more of a regular shopping stop in the very near future.
Monday, June 20, 2011
7 Layer Mexican Dip
The other super yummy thing I made to take to a gathering this weekend (to make sure there was something I could eat) was a 5 Layer Mexican Dip from Kraft that I turned into a 7 layer dip.
This was SO good I can't even tell you. We served it with Tostitos and literally couldn't stop eating it!
I added one smooshed up avacado layer, which turned it into 7 layers. I'm not sure why it's considered a 5 layer dip by craft when there are 6 layers to start with, but who cares? It's YUMMY.
Make sure you buy gluten free beans!
MIX beans, chili powder and cumin; spread onto bottom of 9-inch pie plate.
TOP with layers of remaining ingredients.
REFRIGERATE several hours.
This was SO good I can't even tell you. We served it with Tostitos and literally couldn't stop eating it!
I added one smooshed up avacado layer, which turned it into 7 layers. I'm not sure why it's considered a 5 layer dip by craft when there are 6 layers to start with, but who cares? It's YUMMY.
Make sure you buy gluten free beans!
What You Need
1 can (15-1/2 oz.) refried black beans - make sure they are gluten free!
1 Tbsp. chili powder
1/2 tsp. ground cumin
1 cup BREAKSTONE'S or KNUDSEN Sour Cream
1 cup KRAFT Shredded Cheddar Cheese
3 green onions, sliced
1/3 cup sliced black olives
1 tomato, chopped
Make It
MIX beans, chili powder and cumin; spread onto bottom of 9-inch pie plate.
TOP with layers of remaining ingredients.
REFRIGERATE several hours.
Kraft 3 Step Lemon Cheesecake Bars
For a gathering on Saturday I made 2 things to ensure that I had a gluten free good time, one of which was Kraft's Lemon Cheesecake Bars, which were insanely easy to make. Instead of macaroon cookie crumbs, (which I'm sure I could find pre-made & gluten free if I were to go to Whole Foods or Wegmans), I bought a package of gluten free ginger snaps and pulverized them into crumbs.
These Lemon Cheesecake Bars were a great hit and I will make them again. I might make a raspberry compote to put on top & it into a round (more like a cheesecake). I did use the juice of an entire lemon to get the flavor right but it's up to your taste!
These Lemon Cheesecake Bars were a great hit and I will make them again. I might make a raspberry compote to put on top & it into a round (more like a cheesecake). I did use the juice of an entire lemon to get the flavor right but it's up to your taste!
What You Need
1-1/2 cups soft coconut macaroon cookie crumbs
2 Tbsp. margarine, melted
2 pkg. (8 oz. each) PHILADELPHIA Cream Cheese, softened
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 tsp. zest and 1 Tbsp. juice from 1 lemon
1/2 tsp. imitation vanilla
2 eggs
Make It
HEAT oven to 350°F.
MIX cookie crumbs and margarine; press onto bottom of 8-inch square pan sprayed with cooking spray.
BEAT cream cheese, sugar, lemon zest, juice and vanilla in large bowl with mixer until well blended. Add eggs, 1 at a time, mixing after each just until blended. Pour over crust.
BAKE 20 to 25 min. or until center is almost set. Cool completely. Refrigerate 3 hours.
MIX cookie crumbs and margarine; press onto bottom of 8-inch square pan sprayed with cooking spray.
BEAT cream cheese, sugar, lemon zest, juice and vanilla in large bowl with mixer until well blended. Add eggs, 1 at a time, mixing after each just until blended. Pour over crust.
BAKE 20 to 25 min. or until center is almost set. Cool completely. Refrigerate 3 hours.
Friday, June 17, 2011
Quinoa Salad
2 cups quinoa*
4 cups water
Cook the quinoa by boiling water, adding the quinoa, boiling it again (just like rice), cover and lower the temp to simmer for 15 min. Cool off the quinoa by putting it in the freezer while you chop the following veggies:
1 large de-seeded tomato
1 large de-seeded cucumber
1 large de-seeded green pepper (or if you like - use a different color to make it vibrant)
1 bunch (4-5 stalks) green onion
1 cup crumbled feta
3 lemons
1/2-3/4 cup olive oil
fresh chopped dill to taste
fresh chopped flat leave parsley to taste
salt/pepper to taste
Once you have the quinoa cooked and chilled and the veggies chopped it's pretty easy. I whip up the olive oil & juice from three lemons in a big bowl. Add salt/pepper to taste and then throw all the veggies in with the dressing. At the end, toss in the feta cheese.
This makes a great salad - serve cold or at room temp. It's very filling, gluten free and a tasty way to get your veggies!
*You might be asking, what the hell is quinoa? WHFoods says this about quinoa:
Most commonly considered a grain, quinoa is actually a relative of leafy green vegetables like spinach and Swiss chard. It is a recently rediscovered ancient "grain" once considered "the gold of the Incas."
If you are used to couscous - quinoa is very similar and quite versatile.
4 cups water
Cook the quinoa by boiling water, adding the quinoa, boiling it again (just like rice), cover and lower the temp to simmer for 15 min. Cool off the quinoa by putting it in the freezer while you chop the following veggies:
1 large de-seeded tomato
1 large de-seeded cucumber
1 large de-seeded green pepper (or if you like - use a different color to make it vibrant)
1 bunch (4-5 stalks) green onion
1 cup crumbled feta
3 lemons
1/2-3/4 cup olive oil
fresh chopped dill to taste
fresh chopped flat leave parsley to taste
salt/pepper to taste
Once you have the quinoa cooked and chilled and the veggies chopped it's pretty easy. I whip up the olive oil & juice from three lemons in a big bowl. Add salt/pepper to taste and then throw all the veggies in with the dressing. At the end, toss in the feta cheese.
This makes a great salad - serve cold or at room temp. It's very filling, gluten free and a tasty way to get your veggies!
*You might be asking, what the hell is quinoa? WHFoods says this about quinoa:
Most commonly considered a grain, quinoa is actually a relative of leafy green vegetables like spinach and Swiss chard. It is a recently rediscovered ancient "grain" once considered "the gold of the Incas."
If you are used to couscous - quinoa is very similar and quite versatile.
Celiac Disease (huh?) a/k/a I can't eat gluten (oooh!)
I had an appointment with my doctor yesterday to go over some test results. I asked her a few weeks ago to include a Celiac & food allergy test in with blood work. She got the results back and guess what? I'm positive for Celiac Disease. As a result, I'm going on a gluten free diet for a few months (at least). I've been having some gastro issues and have had no interest in food. I had a sneaky suspicion that perhaps I had a food allergy or couldn't tolerate gluten. Turns out I was right!
As soon as I heard the news I started eating gluten free. I think I have to. There's a difference between wanting to follow on a diet to lose weight and needing to go on a specific diet so your body can absorb nutrients so you can continue to live. There's a difference in my head anyway.
It especially hit home when I did a bit of googling and found that uncontrolled Celiac Disease in women can result in premature birth, miscarriage or underweight babies. During my entire pregnancy I didn't want to eat anything. The only thing I craved were popsicles. I had to make myself eat. I gained about 8 pounds. Elizabeth was born (3 lbs, 6 oz) at 32 weeks because an ultrasound showed the umbilical cord wasn't providing nourishment to her. I told my midwives I thought something was strange about my lack of appetite but they told me it was good I wasn't gaining a crazy amount of weight (since I'm already a bit over).
So let's get this straight. Celiac Disease keeps mom from absorbing nutrients, which thereby keeps baby from absorbing nutrients, which results in pre-term birth, stillbirth or miscarriage.
That's some serious stuff! This diagnosis might explain my illness last year when I had Elizabeth. They diagnosed me with HELLP syndrome but what if it was untreated CD instead?
To start me on my journey this morning I had a bowl of Eco-Planet Instant Hot Cereal (which sounds odd but really it's the same as oatmeal to me) with sliced donut peaches (which sound fancy but really they're just adorable little peaches that I bought at our local Whole Foods).
My husband has decided to try this diet with me in an effort to feel better & lose some weight. It's ironic. I finally got to the point in my life where I was comfortable with my size and didn't have any urge to "get skinny". I did want to get in shape, but that urge to fit into a size 8 jeans is gone. Now I'm going on an eating plan that will inevitably end in weight loss. Well there you go.
As soon as I heard the news I started eating gluten free. I think I have to. There's a difference between wanting to follow on a diet to lose weight and needing to go on a specific diet so your body can absorb nutrients so you can continue to live. There's a difference in my head anyway.
It especially hit home when I did a bit of googling and found that uncontrolled Celiac Disease in women can result in premature birth, miscarriage or underweight babies. During my entire pregnancy I didn't want to eat anything. The only thing I craved were popsicles. I had to make myself eat. I gained about 8 pounds. Elizabeth was born (3 lbs, 6 oz) at 32 weeks because an ultrasound showed the umbilical cord wasn't providing nourishment to her. I told my midwives I thought something was strange about my lack of appetite but they told me it was good I wasn't gaining a crazy amount of weight (since I'm already a bit over).
So let's get this straight. Celiac Disease keeps mom from absorbing nutrients, which thereby keeps baby from absorbing nutrients, which results in pre-term birth, stillbirth or miscarriage.
That's some serious stuff! This diagnosis might explain my illness last year when I had Elizabeth. They diagnosed me with HELLP syndrome but what if it was untreated CD instead?
To start me on my journey this morning I had a bowl of Eco-Planet Instant Hot Cereal (which sounds odd but really it's the same as oatmeal to me) with sliced donut peaches (which sound fancy but really they're just adorable little peaches that I bought at our local Whole Foods).
My husband has decided to try this diet with me in an effort to feel better & lose some weight. It's ironic. I finally got to the point in my life where I was comfortable with my size and didn't have any urge to "get skinny". I did want to get in shape, but that urge to fit into a size 8 jeans is gone. Now I'm going on an eating plan that will inevitably end in weight loss. Well there you go.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Misc
I never seem to have the time to figure out this whole blogging thing but lately it seems I have things to say. I guess most of my better friends (and husband) would say that I always have things to say but if you read my blog you'd say "So much for that theory!" since I haven't written in over a year.
I got into grad school at University of South Carolina for this fall. My major? Library Science. It's a lifelong dream and dreams are important. So in the fall I start classes part time - long distance (from Northern VA) to get my MLIS in digital libraries. I'm still working in insurance but I have an exit plan. Who in their right mind has a dream to be a digital librarian? I ask you. Am I crazy? Probably.
As a mom it seems my priorities in life have changed. When I hear of a child's death or illness I am more affected than I was before. I want to DO something. It seems the empathy I have always had for animals has evolved and expanded into people as well. Some would probably say I've always had empathy for people but it's changed somehow. It's difficult to explain. There seem to be more children born early than ever before. We were lucky with Elizabeth (born at 32 weeks). She is alive and healthy. Many people are not so lucky.
I'm actively working with myself to see how this new found empathy can be used. I started a March of Dimes team this year and we raised $2,000! It is an issue near & dear to my heart.
Elizabeth's 1st birthday is coming up (August 5th) and I think we'll do a Tinker Bell theme for her party. Maybe next year we'll call our team "Claps for Tink". I think I like that!
Do check out the March of Dimes. They do great work. Did you know polio no longer exists because of research funded by the March of Dimes?
I got into grad school at University of South Carolina for this fall. My major? Library Science. It's a lifelong dream and dreams are important. So in the fall I start classes part time - long distance (from Northern VA) to get my MLIS in digital libraries. I'm still working in insurance but I have an exit plan. Who in their right mind has a dream to be a digital librarian? I ask you. Am I crazy? Probably.
As a mom it seems my priorities in life have changed. When I hear of a child's death or illness I am more affected than I was before. I want to DO something. It seems the empathy I have always had for animals has evolved and expanded into people as well. Some would probably say I've always had empathy for people but it's changed somehow. It's difficult to explain. There seem to be more children born early than ever before. We were lucky with Elizabeth (born at 32 weeks). She is alive and healthy. Many people are not so lucky.
I'm actively working with myself to see how this new found empathy can be used. I started a March of Dimes team this year and we raised $2,000! It is an issue near & dear to my heart.
Elizabeth's 1st birthday is coming up (August 5th) and I think we'll do a Tinker Bell theme for her party. Maybe next year we'll call our team "Claps for Tink". I think I like that!
Do check out the March of Dimes. They do great work. Did you know polio no longer exists because of research funded by the March of Dimes?
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Smarties Secret!
Why have I not read about the amazing properties of Smarties?! I tried Ginger candy to alleviate my nausea and it worked for a bit but the other night I stumbled across Mega Smarties at Cracker Barrel, which are HUGE versions of the original sweet/tangy treat. They're about nickle sized and one or two kicks my nausea in the butt!
I bought the smaller ones at the grocery store the other night and while they're still tasty, they just aren't the same. I'll be stopping by our local Cracker Barrel to stock up. For those not in the know, Cracker Barrel has all of the great nostalgic candy you remember from your childhood, including the U.S. Version of Smarties. Did you know the European version is manufactured by Nestle, is chocolate covered and has nothing to do with my sweet/tangy morning sickness cure? They look tasty though! I might have to work my overseas connections. :)
I bought the smaller ones at the grocery store the other night and while they're still tasty, they just aren't the same. I'll be stopping by our local Cracker Barrel to stock up. For those not in the know, Cracker Barrel has all of the great nostalgic candy you remember from your childhood, including the U.S. Version of Smarties. Did you know the European version is manufactured by Nestle, is chocolate covered and has nothing to do with my sweet/tangy morning sickness cure? They look tasty though! I might have to work my overseas connections. :)
Turnip Truck
B's mom (my MIL) talked to me via IM the other night, asking how I was doing. I told her "well, I'm ok - sometimes I'm really queasy but I know a lot of women have it a lot worse so I'm lucky. As long as I eat every few hours it seems to keep the queasiness to a minimum."
Her response was "Well you can always call me you know. Some things never change and I didn't just fall off the turnip truck."
I still giggle everytime I think about it.
Her response was "Well you can always call me you know. Some things never change and I didn't just fall off the turnip truck."
I still giggle everytime I think about it.
Hip to be round
So I think my goal is to be a hip mamma. Not like a "I'm my child's best friend" mom but a tattood pregnant lady who goes to concerts occassionally but still knows how to make pasta from scratch.
That's a nice idea. I guess everyone has an idea of who they are in their heads. It's kind of funny.
I went shopping yesterday because my fat jeans are getting a bit too snug. I'm not a thin woman by any means. I'm also not overly obese, but I'm definitely chunky. You know how we all worry about our muffin tops? Well, my muffin top has exploded over the past few weeks into a definite.... well, muffin top. Except I'm trying to embrace the fact that part of it is baby related. So I went to Motherhood Maternity & bought a decent number of clothes for a really good price. I got 2 sweaters, 5 tops & 2 pairs of pants. It's very hard to not feel like a fat lady in pregnant clothes, but I'm working on that. I'm 9 weeks and gosh should I be pooched out this much? The scale doesn't reflect anything but I'm guessing that my organs are all being moved around... it's very odd.
It's also very odd to not have a waist band for the pants. I'm used to pulling my pants up via my belt loops. The most important lesson I learned yesterday? When you're pregnant say goodbye to belt loops & zippers.
Caught myself in the mirror at work today and I think I did ok this morning with my clothing selection. As a modern short chunky woman showing my tummy will take some serious getting used to.
That's a nice idea. I guess everyone has an idea of who they are in their heads. It's kind of funny.
I went shopping yesterday because my fat jeans are getting a bit too snug. I'm not a thin woman by any means. I'm also not overly obese, but I'm definitely chunky. You know how we all worry about our muffin tops? Well, my muffin top has exploded over the past few weeks into a definite.... well, muffin top. Except I'm trying to embrace the fact that part of it is baby related. So I went to Motherhood Maternity & bought a decent number of clothes for a really good price. I got 2 sweaters, 5 tops & 2 pairs of pants. It's very hard to not feel like a fat lady in pregnant clothes, but I'm working on that. I'm 9 weeks and gosh should I be pooched out this much? The scale doesn't reflect anything but I'm guessing that my organs are all being moved around... it's very odd.
It's also very odd to not have a waist band for the pants. I'm used to pulling my pants up via my belt loops. The most important lesson I learned yesterday? When you're pregnant say goodbye to belt loops & zippers.
Caught myself in the mirror at work today and I think I did ok this morning with my clothing selection. As a modern short chunky woman showing my tummy will take some serious getting used to.
Monday, September 7, 2009
A President's Job is to Lead & Inspire
I think that is exactly what President Obama is doing with his address to children tomorrow.
Some find it controversial that he would tell the children "We need every single one of you to develop your talents, skills and intellect so you can help solve our most difficult problems. If you don’t do that – if you quit on school – you’re not just quitting on yourself, you’re quitting on your country." But you know what? I find it inspiring. Inspiring that someone in that high an office would take time out of his day to talk to the youngsters of American about how he didn't have it that easy, but look where he is today:
"I wasn’t always as focused as I should have been. I did some things I’m not proud of, and got in more trouble than I should have. And my life could have easily taken a turn for the worse. But I was fortunate. I got a lot of second chances and had the opportunity to go to college, and law school, and follow my dreams. My wife, our First Lady Michelle Obama, has a similar story. Neither of her parents had gone to college, and they didn’t have much. But they worked hard, and she worked hard, so that she could go to the best schools in this country."
It's important not just for the children of this nation to hear these words from a President, but it's also important for us as adults, because learning never stops and the opportunities never end. It's extremely inspiring for me, an adult student, to hear the President of the United States tell us how things weren't always easy. We all make mistakes, but we're given second and third and fourth chances to make things right. Whether that be our education or in our personal life.
So the critics can complain and the naysayers will nay say, but I say this President is doing exactly what I hired him for. He is a role model for the entire nation, no matter what your political views. It's never too late to follow your dreams.
Some find it controversial that he would tell the children "We need every single one of you to develop your talents, skills and intellect so you can help solve our most difficult problems. If you don’t do that – if you quit on school – you’re not just quitting on yourself, you’re quitting on your country." But you know what? I find it inspiring. Inspiring that someone in that high an office would take time out of his day to talk to the youngsters of American about how he didn't have it that easy, but look where he is today:
"I wasn’t always as focused as I should have been. I did some things I’m not proud of, and got in more trouble than I should have. And my life could have easily taken a turn for the worse. But I was fortunate. I got a lot of second chances and had the opportunity to go to college, and law school, and follow my dreams. My wife, our First Lady Michelle Obama, has a similar story. Neither of her parents had gone to college, and they didn’t have much. But they worked hard, and she worked hard, so that she could go to the best schools in this country."
It's important not just for the children of this nation to hear these words from a President, but it's also important for us as adults, because learning never stops and the opportunities never end. It's extremely inspiring for me, an adult student, to hear the President of the United States tell us how things weren't always easy. We all make mistakes, but we're given second and third and fourth chances to make things right. Whether that be our education or in our personal life.
So the critics can complain and the naysayers will nay say, but I say this President is doing exactly what I hired him for. He is a role model for the entire nation, no matter what your political views. It's never too late to follow your dreams.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
A tragedy for the Richmond SPCA
I received an email today from the SPCA in Richmond, VA - my hometown. I have always supported the RSPCA because they do wonderful work. Robin Starr was able to revitalize the animal rights groups in Richmond and create a new space for the SPCA, a no-kill shelter, a place where pets are adopted out, receive medical treatment and pet parents are educated.
This year United Animal Nations, a national animal advocacy group started a campaign to inform the public about the dangers of keeping a dog in a car even for a few moments in the warm months (or even in spring or fall). A car is a death trap to a pet, even with the windows cracked. Try it yourself on a 70 degree day. See how long you last as the greenhouse effect starts and the car rises to 100 degrees in just a few minutes. Crack the window and see if it makes a difference. It doesn't.
From the UAN press release:
A Stanford University test found that when it is 72 degrees outside, a car’s internal temperature can rocket to 116 degrees within an hour, even with windows cracked. When it is 85 degrees outside, the temperature inside a car can soar to 102 degrees in 10 minutes and 120 degrees in 30 minutes. A dog can only withstand a high body temperature for a short time before suffering nerve damage, heart problems, liver damage, brain damage or even death.
So when Robin Starr and her husband miscommunicated last week and accidentally left their 16 year old dog in the back of Robin's car for 4 hours, his fate was unfortunately written in stone. He died later that night of kidney failure even after the Starr family tried every possible medical option at a local emergency vet in Carytown.
I know that clinic. They have great facilities and they care about their patients. I know the SPCA in Richmond, they do fantastic work for animals in and around the community. Their facilities are excellent and everyone there, Robin included, work for the betterment of the lives of our companion animals.
So the fact that the CEO of the Richmond SPCA accidentally killed her dog is an even greater tragedy than if it happened to J.Q. Public. It's a greater tragedy because she should have known better and I have no doubt that she cared greatly about Louie.
If it were me I would step down. Not because the critics call for it but because I failed. It's difficult enough to protect animals that are not our own but it is our obligation to protect those under our care. There are other avenues that Robin Starr can take to help the animals in Richmond. She doesn't need the title of CEO to make a real difference. All she had to do was check the back of her car every morning to make a difference to Louie.
I don't say this to be hurtful but if we can't protect those who are closest to us, how are we to protect the rest?
This year United Animal Nations, a national animal advocacy group started a campaign to inform the public about the dangers of keeping a dog in a car even for a few moments in the warm months (or even in spring or fall). A car is a death trap to a pet, even with the windows cracked. Try it yourself on a 70 degree day. See how long you last as the greenhouse effect starts and the car rises to 100 degrees in just a few minutes. Crack the window and see if it makes a difference. It doesn't.
From the UAN press release:
A Stanford University test found that when it is 72 degrees outside, a car’s internal temperature can rocket to 116 degrees within an hour, even with windows cracked. When it is 85 degrees outside, the temperature inside a car can soar to 102 degrees in 10 minutes and 120 degrees in 30 minutes. A dog can only withstand a high body temperature for a short time before suffering nerve damage, heart problems, liver damage, brain damage or even death.
So when Robin Starr and her husband miscommunicated last week and accidentally left their 16 year old dog in the back of Robin's car for 4 hours, his fate was unfortunately written in stone. He died later that night of kidney failure even after the Starr family tried every possible medical option at a local emergency vet in Carytown.
I know that clinic. They have great facilities and they care about their patients. I know the SPCA in Richmond, they do fantastic work for animals in and around the community. Their facilities are excellent and everyone there, Robin included, work for the betterment of the lives of our companion animals.
So the fact that the CEO of the Richmond SPCA accidentally killed her dog is an even greater tragedy than if it happened to J.Q. Public. It's a greater tragedy because she should have known better and I have no doubt that she cared greatly about Louie.
If it were me I would step down. Not because the critics call for it but because I failed. It's difficult enough to protect animals that are not our own but it is our obligation to protect those under our care. There are other avenues that Robin Starr can take to help the animals in Richmond. She doesn't need the title of CEO to make a real difference. All she had to do was check the back of her car every morning to make a difference to Louie.
I don't say this to be hurtful but if we can't protect those who are closest to us, how are we to protect the rest?
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Cheesecake Dreams
Girl's night yesterday with my girlfriends who I adore. Saw a movie, ate dinner and drank too much wine. Doesn't happen often because B & I are out of town most weekends.
Discussions last night got me thinking today. It seems to always turn to the same thing. B & I will one day have children and B will have to give up the band and his crazy lifestyle to become yet another sheep in the neverending pasture of people who give up their dreams for conformity.
These are their ideas, not mine. I continue to state and re-state that no, we'll find a different way of doing it. B's been with the band for going on a decade now (I think) and I can't imagine him not doing music in some shape. I want him to stay in music and do what he loves. Even if we have kids and embrace the American "dream" and all of that.
Even if we don't.
They poopoo my ideas. "You can't raise a child alone. He can't be gone every weekend. "
I call us selfish. We are in our 30's with no kids. A dog, yes, but even Mozart would admit he's not an infant. Perhaps we are selfish. Maybe we should grow up and stop staying out all hours of the night and sleeping until 3 in the afternoon. Maybe eating cheesecake straight out of the box isn't such a good idea. But what if it was my lifelong dream to eat cheesecake straight out of the box? Is it so hurtful that my love would tell me to stop? Force me to give up some semblance of happiness for the greater good? Or what we're told is the greater good. Who says we can't eat cheesecake straight out of the box or stay up until 4 in the morning?
Who makes these rules?
My bigger question is when do we give up our dreams? And why? Because someone tells us to or because we get tired of chasing them? How can you love someone and at the same time tell them to give up what makes them happy?
I can't imagine what I'd do if B told me I couldn't finish my graduate degree because we need to start our family. Yes I tell him to take the trash out every night and yes we're gone too much and our apartment looks like a pigsty because of it. But it's our pigsty. And our trash.
And our cheesecake - that we're going to continue to eat straight out of the box.
Discussions last night got me thinking today. It seems to always turn to the same thing. B & I will one day have children and B will have to give up the band and his crazy lifestyle to become yet another sheep in the neverending pasture of people who give up their dreams for conformity.
These are their ideas, not mine. I continue to state and re-state that no, we'll find a different way of doing it. B's been with the band for going on a decade now (I think) and I can't imagine him not doing music in some shape. I want him to stay in music and do what he loves. Even if we have kids and embrace the American "dream" and all of that.
Even if we don't.
They poopoo my ideas. "You can't raise a child alone. He can't be gone every weekend. "
I call us selfish. We are in our 30's with no kids. A dog, yes, but even Mozart would admit he's not an infant. Perhaps we are selfish. Maybe we should grow up and stop staying out all hours of the night and sleeping until 3 in the afternoon. Maybe eating cheesecake straight out of the box isn't such a good idea. But what if it was my lifelong dream to eat cheesecake straight out of the box? Is it so hurtful that my love would tell me to stop? Force me to give up some semblance of happiness for the greater good? Or what we're told is the greater good. Who says we can't eat cheesecake straight out of the box or stay up until 4 in the morning?
Who makes these rules?
My bigger question is when do we give up our dreams? And why? Because someone tells us to or because we get tired of chasing them? How can you love someone and at the same time tell them to give up what makes them happy?
I can't imagine what I'd do if B told me I couldn't finish my graduate degree because we need to start our family. Yes I tell him to take the trash out every night and yes we're gone too much and our apartment looks like a pigsty because of it. But it's our pigsty. And our trash.
And our cheesecake - that we're going to continue to eat straight out of the box.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
The new Peapod Green Car is released - But is it practical?
So once again, American car companies are behind the 8 ball?
Chrysler, LLC released their eco-friendly Peapod - (an all electric vehicle) for city dwellers today. It's restricted to 25 miles per hour in most states - It's basically a moped with two side by side seats and Iphone plugs. It's certainly cute but at a starting price of $12,500 it really can't compare with the Smart Car (which we're seeing more and more of in the Washington DC area) which starts at $11,900 and uses electricity AND gas.
The Smart Car is a co-creation of Mercedes-Benz and Swatch.
The little two person vehicle maxes out at 90 mph and can be driven on any highway, unlike the Peapod which is restricted to roads that have a max speed limit of 35mph or under.
Granted the prices are similar but the Peapod is not going to help my fellow commuters (who travel on roads above 35 MPH) nor is it going to help with parking in the city. If anything it will encourage folks who now take the subway & bicycles to trade their foot traffic for 4 wheels - adding to the already overcrowded streets.
The Peapod can boast that it's greener than the Smart Car, but I don't think it's anymore practical. It runs for 30 miles on a 6-8 hour charge, where the Smart Car's miles per gallon are 33 - city & 41 highway (a measurement the Peapod can't even make).
I really think that Chrysler bit the big one here. I think that once again US car manufacturers are behind the times. Until someone can give us an electric car that goes at least 70 MPH and lasts for 500+ miles on one charge, we'll be forced to use a combination of gas & electricity to get greener. In the meantime, they should be promoting mass transit instead of thinking about how to move two people at a time in already overcrowded cities.
If I were in the market for a greener car, there would be no question which vehicle I'd be looking at.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Bo arrives at the White House!
That is just about the cutest dog I've ever seen. And the girls are so great with him!
Video from www.nbcwashington.com, our local affiliate.
Video from www.nbcwashington.com, our local affiliate.
Monday, April 13, 2009
DOTUS or BOTUS? The White House Pup
Yes many people have already posted about Bo, the new White House dog, but few are showing this picture from the Whitehouse.gov blog site. We are really looking forward to seeing Bo run around the White House lawn! The President will definitely have someone to join him if he decides to go jogging. :)
It's very appropriate that the Obama's decided to get a rather rambunctious breed - the Portuguese Water Dog - since FLOTUS likes to promote a healthy lifestyle. I think Bo will keep them active.
Bo is a re-homed dog, not technically a rescue but definitely a pup who's looking for his forever home. I wonder if he ever thought he'd have a yard that big!
According to the Post, the Obama's have also made a contribution to the Washington DC Humane Society.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Losing Weight & Saving Money
How do we lose weight in this economy when everyone is watching their purses just a little closer?
I'm a big proponent of shopping at Costco or Sam's club for our weekly produce, meat & dairy but be careful! Those New York strip steaks are awesome but everything at the warehouse markets are HUGE. Because everything is so large in those markets you don't realize exactly how big the steaks really are until you get home. For two people you really don't need more than one steak to split per meal. I typically buy a pack of NY strip steaks, come home and freeze them with seasoning. When it's time to grill I pull out one for the hubby & I to split. They are about 14 ounces each and 6-7 ounces of steak after cooking is more than enough to fill us up.
For about $30 I get 5 thick steaks that last us for a month. About once a week (or whenever we feel like going out for a good steak) I pull one out to grill. Serve with fingerling potatoes (often found at the warehouse markets for $6.99 for 5 pounds - at $1.40 a pound it's a steal) and mushrooms & green beans ($4.99 for 3 pounds of fresh snap beans - freeze them in portion sizes appropriate for meals).
I learned this trick from my mother in-law. Always have a steak in the freezer for those days when you're on your last dime for the budget and payday is a few days away. You can't feel bad about yourself when you're eating steak! And in moderation it's a very healthy meal. Just cut off the fat and voila!
Another trick I've learned by shopping at Costco is an idea for a healthy breakfast. The hubby & I have spent the last few years eating those God awful oatmeal bars for breakfast. The problem is, they don't fill you up & they're full of packaged sugar/flour/junk. Sure they're pretty good for you but after 3 years of eating them - it gets pretty durn old. One week while at Costco picking up 3 pounds of bananas for $1.19 (bargain!) and a $2.00 gallon of skim milk, I saw the strawberries. Yummy & ripe! I was hit with an idea. Why not try making smoothie's for breakfast? It's worth a shot right?
The following is a concoction I have stolen from a friend (thanks A!) using blueberries, strawberries, a banana and some vanilla protein powder. The result is a VERY yummy & filling smoothie with 273 calories, 2 grams of fat, 40 grams of carbs & 27 protein. We've been eating these every day for the past few weeks and I actually look forward to breakfast. They're so filling that they carry you well into lunch time. Taking the time to prep for these is key but the little extra time is SO worth it! You can use fresh berries or freeze the strawberries yourself, depending on the consistency you desire.
Per smoothie (double for two):
1/3 cup oj
1 cup de-stemmed fresh strawberries
1/2 cup frozen blueberries (3 pounds for $5.99! lasts for weeks!)
1 scoop vanilla protein powder
1/2 banana
About 1/2 cup of water - depending on the consistency you desire
Blend for 20 seconds. Serve in 20 oz portable bottle.
It's a great healthy way to start your day! This smoothie also equals about 4 servings of fruits! Make them for yourself and your Significant Other one morning & see how fresh food can really make a difference in your overall health.
I'm a big proponent of shopping at Costco or Sam's club for our weekly produce, meat & dairy but be careful! Those New York strip steaks are awesome but everything at the warehouse markets are HUGE. Because everything is so large in those markets you don't realize exactly how big the steaks really are until you get home. For two people you really don't need more than one steak to split per meal. I typically buy a pack of NY strip steaks, come home and freeze them with seasoning. When it's time to grill I pull out one for the hubby & I to split. They are about 14 ounces each and 6-7 ounces of steak after cooking is more than enough to fill us up.
For about $30 I get 5 thick steaks that last us for a month. About once a week (or whenever we feel like going out for a good steak) I pull one out to grill. Serve with fingerling potatoes (often found at the warehouse markets for $6.99 for 5 pounds - at $1.40 a pound it's a steal) and mushrooms & green beans ($4.99 for 3 pounds of fresh snap beans - freeze them in portion sizes appropriate for meals).
I learned this trick from my mother in-law. Always have a steak in the freezer for those days when you're on your last dime for the budget and payday is a few days away. You can't feel bad about yourself when you're eating steak! And in moderation it's a very healthy meal. Just cut off the fat and voila!
Another trick I've learned by shopping at Costco is an idea for a healthy breakfast. The hubby & I have spent the last few years eating those God awful oatmeal bars for breakfast. The problem is, they don't fill you up & they're full of packaged sugar/flour/junk. Sure they're pretty good for you but after 3 years of eating them - it gets pretty durn old. One week while at Costco picking up 3 pounds of bananas for $1.19 (bargain!) and a $2.00 gallon of skim milk, I saw the strawberries. Yummy & ripe! I was hit with an idea. Why not try making smoothie's for breakfast? It's worth a shot right?
The following is a concoction I have stolen from a friend (thanks A!) using blueberries, strawberries, a banana and some vanilla protein powder. The result is a VERY yummy & filling smoothie with 273 calories, 2 grams of fat, 40 grams of carbs & 27 protein. We've been eating these every day for the past few weeks and I actually look forward to breakfast. They're so filling that they carry you well into lunch time. Taking the time to prep for these is key but the little extra time is SO worth it! You can use fresh berries or freeze the strawberries yourself, depending on the consistency you desire.
Per smoothie (double for two):
1/3 cup oj
1 cup de-stemmed fresh strawberries
1/2 cup frozen blueberries (3 pounds for $5.99! lasts for weeks!)
1 scoop vanilla protein powder
1/2 banana
About 1/2 cup of water - depending on the consistency you desire
Blend for 20 seconds. Serve in 20 oz portable bottle.
It's a great healthy way to start your day! This smoothie also equals about 4 servings of fruits! Make them for yourself and your Significant Other one morning & see how fresh food can really make a difference in your overall health.
Friday, April 3, 2009
4 Sale
This article on Cnn.com talks about how a $500,000 home is now being sold for $200,000. Now besides the fact that you can't "call" it a 500k home if it's selling for 200k... I think the one thing that these articles fail to point out is how awful it is to have to short-sell or foreclose on your home because the loan you have on it is $300,000 more than your neighbors who just bought the same house next door for $300k less.
We have the same problem here in the metro Washington DC area. Homes that were valued at 500k are now going for 250k-300k. Now people are able to buy those homes at 250k because the person who owned the home previously had a loan for $500k that they couldn't pay so they were foreclosed on. So the first family is forced to leave because they cannot afford the loan they took out for 500k and another family moves in paying on a much more affordable mortgage of 250k.
So my question is this - why can't they find a way for the first family to stay in their home but pay on a mortgage that reflects the market rate for the house?
I know - it's not what we do here in America - it would totally screw up the already screwed up system of lending and borrowing - and it's not our fault that the first family bought over their means - but what good is it going to do to have a bunch of empty run down houses? What good will it do to have another family renting instead of taking pride in home ownership? Or worse yet, be on the street?
We have the same problem here in the metro Washington DC area. Homes that were valued at 500k are now going for 250k-300k. Now people are able to buy those homes at 250k because the person who owned the home previously had a loan for $500k that they couldn't pay so they were foreclosed on. So the first family is forced to leave because they cannot afford the loan they took out for 500k and another family moves in paying on a much more affordable mortgage of 250k.
So my question is this - why can't they find a way for the first family to stay in their home but pay on a mortgage that reflects the market rate for the house?
I know - it's not what we do here in America - it would totally screw up the already screwed up system of lending and borrowing - and it's not our fault that the first family bought over their means - but what good is it going to do to have a bunch of empty run down houses? What good will it do to have another family renting instead of taking pride in home ownership? Or worse yet, be on the street?
Thursday, April 2, 2009
MerleFest
In less than a month Ben and I will be driving to Wilkesboro, NC to attend MerleFest 2009 with my in-laws (Ruth & Ed), my favorite Uncle (Steve) and Bonnie. We're staying an a very nice cabin in West Jefferson, NC - in the mountains of NC.
MerleFest is an annual BlueGrass music festival. It features 13 stages (sized from small intimate "pickin' places" to a huge professional outdoor auditorium). It takes place every year on the campus of Wilkes Community College (located in the mountains of NC) and is has contributed over 17 million dollars to the community.
It's a fabulous event and I'm really happy we'll be going this year. Ben is taking his dobro (he took his cello last year - they have an instrument truck where you can leave your instruments in the hands of the local church during the day - tagged & logged in - so you don't have to carry them around), I'm pretty sure Ed is taking his mandolin and God only knows what Steve will take. Maybe I'll buy me some spoons this year. ;-)
The cabin has a hottub but we'll be so busy I doubt we'll even see it. Another nify thing about MerleFest is the napping tent. Yes! I said napping tent!! When we went a few years ago we drove down after work on a friday and I was so exhausted on Saturday that Ben lost me for a few hours - he couldn't find me - because I was in the napping tent snoring away. Best nap of my life! Sleeping on the grass with my purse under my head and Bluegrass in the air. Pretty darn nifty if you ask me.
MerleFest is an annual BlueGrass music festival. It features 13 stages (sized from small intimate "pickin' places" to a huge professional outdoor auditorium). It takes place every year on the campus of Wilkes Community College (located in the mountains of NC) and is has contributed over 17 million dollars to the community.
It's a fabulous event and I'm really happy we'll be going this year. Ben is taking his dobro (he took his cello last year - they have an instrument truck where you can leave your instruments in the hands of the local church during the day - tagged & logged in - so you don't have to carry them around), I'm pretty sure Ed is taking his mandolin and God only knows what Steve will take. Maybe I'll buy me some spoons this year. ;-)
The cabin has a hottub but we'll be so busy I doubt we'll even see it. Another nify thing about MerleFest is the napping tent. Yes! I said napping tent!! When we went a few years ago we drove down after work on a friday and I was so exhausted on Saturday that Ben lost me for a few hours - he couldn't find me - because I was in the napping tent snoring away. Best nap of my life! Sleeping on the grass with my purse under my head and Bluegrass in the air. Pretty darn nifty if you ask me.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
MACA asks Michelle Obama to Reconsider her Organic Garden
I find this article extremely funny. The MidAmerica CropLife Association sent a letter to Michelle Obama asking her to please reconsider her organic garden. You see, it's bad for the pesticide community to have the First Lady walking around promoting healthy lettuce (using no pesticides).
It seems that Michelle Obama’s White House organic garden has alarmed the Mid America CropLife Association (MACA), so they took immediate action by sending the First Lady an email, Thursday, March 26th, 2009, defending chemical based agriculture, and urging her to use “crop protection products,” (i.e. pesticides) in the name of recognizing the importance of agriculture to the economy.
This is the BEST example of lobbyists in Washington. What they fail to address is the difference between raising hundreds of thousands of acres of food vs raising a little side garden in your back yard. It's much easier to use organic methods to keep the bugs off in your back yard because it's such a small plot of land. Of course when you're raising thousands of tons of lettuce - pesticides are currently necessary (because - God forbid we raise smaller, local batches of food - that wouldn't bring in as much money!).
Keep in mind I'm a grandaughter of a farmer so their plight is near & dear to me. The fact that MACA sent a letter to Michelle Obama to try to "talk her into" using pesticides on the White House garden is beyond ridiculous but it is a good example of someone trying to earn their paycheck.
I guess even lobbyists in DC are worried about losing their jobs these days.
It seems that Michelle Obama’s White House organic garden has alarmed the Mid America CropLife Association (MACA), so they took immediate action by sending the First Lady an email, Thursday, March 26th, 2009, defending chemical based agriculture, and urging her to use “crop protection products,” (i.e. pesticides) in the name of recognizing the importance of agriculture to the economy.
This is the BEST example of lobbyists in Washington. What they fail to address is the difference between raising hundreds of thousands of acres of food vs raising a little side garden in your back yard. It's much easier to use organic methods to keep the bugs off in your back yard because it's such a small plot of land. Of course when you're raising thousands of tons of lettuce - pesticides are currently necessary (because - God forbid we raise smaller, local batches of food - that wouldn't bring in as much money!).
Keep in mind I'm a grandaughter of a farmer so their plight is near & dear to me. The fact that MACA sent a letter to Michelle Obama to try to "talk her into" using pesticides on the White House garden is beyond ridiculous but it is a good example of someone trying to earn their paycheck.
I guess even lobbyists in DC are worried about losing their jobs these days.
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